remember that post about matters of the heart, the one I wrote on sunday. it's here . in that post, I said, the hardest part about not mattering to someone is the moment you realize that you don't matter to them and you never really did . FIRST... while I appreciate such cozyass sentiments and believe me, fehatty does. it wasn't about me. like the short bus schmuck I am, I didn't spell out what I meant. clearly we don't have esp, do we? now I will. I was interested in getting a discussion going about matters of the heart. I am intrigued by people who can't sort of, well, roll with it. meaning, they need to define every step of a relationship instead of just enjoying the journey, free of expectations, regardless of where it takes them. I am equally fascinated by the concept of pushing someone to be with you when you both know they don't want to be with you. finally, this concept of relationships as failures or successes. what is that? why do people do that? h...
